In response to last month's director's column, "Children with Disabilities Missing on America's Playgrounds", this reader describes the struggles she and her son Ian have experienced regarding sports inclusion. Mrs. Synder was kind enough to allow us to publish her response in the current newsletter.

"For the last 20 years, my son Ian and I have been trying to break through the barriers which prevent children with disabilities from participating in community sports and recreation programs.

Ian participated in local t-ball until it turned to hard ball in fourth grade and winning became the primary goal of the team. He played in community basketball leagues as well, until he spent every game sitting on the bench. His ability to be competitive was not up to the level needed to participate. Early on, the opinion that Ian's ability might jeopardize the team's chance of winning was shared by all on the team and not discouraged by any coaches.

We turned to a local YMCA, and Ian developed one-on-one shooting skills that would rival those of any basketball player. He also developed a love for weight lifting. Unfortunately for us, some very unhealthy teens used Ian's desire to please and be accepted for their entertainment and Ian suffered the consequences.

Ian is part of the generation of children with disabilities who led the way to inclusion. We understood that we were sacrificing at times a "safe protected environment" in order to accomplish a greater purpose. It was not easy for us as parents, or for Ian, at times. I love the "No child left behind" slogan for sports and recreation.

I have wondered if anyone notices that children of lesser abilities are not present in community sports. Your article let me know that someone does notice."

Barbara Snyder,
Newton, CT